topics for the jarMLou arrives later today for another one of our whirlwind project (this time painting) and catch up weekends. Hooray ! My house is a wreck - I say that as if that's an unusual
occurence ... and sadly it's pretty much the norm. Happily ... I've become pretty comfortable allowing her witness to my wreckage in all it's glory and these last few visits I've felt little or no pressure to go wild (or should I say to attempt to go wild). Because when it comes to areas of domestic engineering I can
guarantee you - no wildness ever occurs at this house. I haven't even thought too much about food (much more my
forté in domestic issues) and/or what we'll eat as we paint and chat, chat & paint and chat some more. I'm hoping
les menu items will hit me sometime in the few hours left this morning before the grocery store opens. I did round up a bunch of paint chips yesterday and I will stand in good bright daylight this morning and soundly make that creamy white decision. I'll take stock of
les painting supplies, I'll make a few lists (with
categories and some sub categories). I'll see if I can't find where Madam Vacuum has been hiding and I'll be busy until
MLou's chariot arrives near evening.
This morning as I sipped my first cup of coffee
dans la nest of down and flannel I was thinking if 29 Black Street was a Bed & Breakfast (I shudder at the thought) I would call it A Hair of the Cat ... by the Sea. I'm sure we'll go through at least one vacuum bag today.
MLou and I have much in common. We're both designers, we met 20 years ago at art college and have been friends since, we have similar tastes, like personalities but our biggest claim to fame when it comes to our friendship is our ability to chat endlessly, effortlessly, intensely and always equally - no one person dominating the conversation. We'll drift away, far, far away many times from the original topic- yet miraculously upon looking at each other puzzled with that
how did we get way out here ? look, one of us will always see the landmark, way off in the distance and row us back to where we began only to have us set off again for some other far away, yet distantly related sub, sub topic. We'll sail around completely engrossed for hours and hours on end in a sea of
tres stimulating and
always interesting conversation - it is awe inspiring and a thing to behold, much needed food for my soul
plus we can
and do manage all this chatting while multi -tasking (bonus), all while we paint, or walk, or hike or sit at my kitchen table at meal times.
I save up topics of conversation for her visits, topics too big and drawn out for our weekly phone chats. I'll sigh and say to her
I think that's one for the jar. Originally joking that I would write all these topics and items down on slips of paper, as I think of them so as not to forget them, and place them in
the jar for safekeeping until her next visit. Then when she arrives she can do the honours, pull a slip out of
les jar, read it out loud and off to the races we'll go.
I have my jar and she has her social world/family tree - portable flip chart on wheels with pocket laser pointer. She married into a huge family. Her husband L. comes from one of those raucous, famous in these parts (or infamous), very large families (9 children) from
Cape Breton (much like
Newfoundland considered by many to still be it's own nation). Considering the spouses of these 9 siblings of L's, the children of etc ... they have formed their own unique and large tribe, a
vast and complicated category all of it's own -
les In Laws (and sub in-laws). She also is a very social girl compared to me, she has a very busy graphic design business with plenty o'
corporate-esqe clients
and friends galore in her big city life. So when she says to me, mid conversation
and then Helen said. I tilt my head, a sign of confusion and she'll wheel out the imaginary chart, flip past the several pages devoted to in-laws and sub in-laws to the section covering friends and associates, and will point (
avec les pocket laser pointer) to the head shot and byline (claim to fame or
essence of said person found underneath the head shot) and I will nod my head.
ohhhhh, Helen ... OK carry on .... it's
so much fun. Sometimes I try to guess - without the chart and always feel very pleased with myself when I get it right and I'm able to recite the byline/essence without the head shot.
If you made it this far ... please accept my apologies for the
tres long & wordy post. I really try very hard to keep my posts to a paragraph or two as I myself can't bear to read "way too long posts" - just too many blogs to visit and much too little time. If you've skimmed to here ... I don't blame you at all. Wink.
Off to the land of
Blue Skies and ready that list -
les plan of action.
Happy Weekend.